Many people have consistencies in their dirty thoughts and deep attractions. The world of kinks and fetishes spans a great many directions. Here are some basic reasons that people like BDSM and some of the logic behind it.
Submission
This is a popular kink that people partake in, for a lot of great reasons.
One of the reasons a lot of people give is that their normal life puts them in decision-making positions often and they simply love the relinquishment of control that comes from their submission. It is a way for them to ease their mind and forget about their real-world responsibilities for a while.
Another reason that some people are attracted to the submissive branch of kink is their love of providing acts of service. Taking care of other people, expressing themselves through acts that show their devotion.
Lastly, the people that submit might have some physical tendencies as well. Playful struggling during sex, or sex fantasies where they ultimately lose and have things done to them. These can be common in people that tend towards submission.
Dominance
Another popular branch of kink, dominance actually has some crossover with submission if you think about it.
One reason that people like being on the dominant end of the kink spectrum is their enjoyment of control. With so many things in life that cannot be controlled, this is one place that control (with communication and safewords, however), can be asserted.
A second reason people like dominance is to make a difference in people’s lives. Sometimes direction can have a positive impact on people’s lives. The dominant side of the spectrum can be very nurturing, helping make sure their submissives are properly taking care of themselves and supporting their pursuit of goals.
Lastly, people that are dominant also tend to have some physical tendencies. It is a good space to communicate exactly what they want. In addition, they may enjoy being on the winning end of a friendly struggle. Inflicting pleasure on their partners can also be something that dominant personalities love.
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