A first date can be awkward, but if you’re still feeling those butterflies at the end of the night, then it’s probably safe to say that the evening went well.
If he was comfortable enough to ask you questions about yourself and your friends, it shows that he was truly interested in getting to know you.
1. You’re both relaxed
A little nervousness is totally normal on a first date, but if you both feel at ease, it’s a great sign. Conversation flows naturally and there are no awkward pauses or silences.
If you find yourself laughing at the same things your date does, that’s another great sign. Being able to laugh together is a major factor in a happy and healthy relationship, so it’s important that both of you can make each other smile on a first date.
If your date is relaxed and enjoying himself, he will likely want to extend the date as much as possible. This might mean he suggests dinner after drinks or asks if you can stay longer than the scheduled end time. He’ll also probably ignore his phone while he’s with you.
2. You’re making eye contact
If your date is staring directly at you, it’s a good sign that they enjoyed the conversation and want to spend more time with you. If they look down at their phone or around the room, it’s a signal that they aren’t interested in you.
Laughter is a key part of any relationship, and if your date kept making you giggle throughout the entire date, it’s an excellent sign that they liked your banter. It also means that they are comfortable with talking about personal things with you.
Nobody wants to be stuck at a table with someone they don’t connect with for hours on end. If your date was trying to linger and turn drinks into dinner, it’s a great sign that they enjoy your company and want to spend more time with you.
3. You’re both engaging in conversation
You may have had a lot of small talk, but if the conversation seemed natural and easy, and you were both equally participating in it, that’s a good sign. It means that you’re both interested in learning more about the other person and what makes them tick.
If they didn’t keep checking their phone, or were constantly nipping outside to get some air or to the loo, that’s another really clear sign that they enjoyed your company and are genuinely into you. If they were asking more in-depth questions about your past and what you want for the future, that’s even better! They were obviously interested enough to suggest a second date. How sweet is that?
4. You’re both making physical contact
While you may not want to go for a full-on hand-holding session on your first date, if there is some light touching between you or even some not-so-sneaky staring, this is a good sign that you’re both attracted to each other. Just don’t overdo it with the touching and make your date feel uncomfortable by showing too much physical affection on a first date; excessive displays of public intimacy can lead to feelings of possessiveness that aren’t necessary for emotional intimacy in a relationship.
Also, if you both joke around about wanting to see each other again and they suggest where to meet next time, this is a solid indication that they enjoyed your company and that there was some good sexual chemistry between you. This is a great sign that things could very well turn into a serious relationship.
5. You’re both smiling
Laughter is one of the best things you can do with someone, and it’s even better when you find yourself laughing together. If your date can make you laugh and they share your sense of humor, it’s a good sign that there’s potential for something real.
Steady conversation is another way you can tell if your first date went well. If your date is talking with you and not texting or checking their phone, it’s a good sign that they enjoyed the company.
It’s also a good sign if they want to see you again. While dating etiquette requires a follow-up, if your date is already making plans for the next time they meet up, that’s a great sign that things went well. So go ahead and give them your number!