Retirement is rewarding for anyone who can say they are a retiree; it is a lifetime of hard work finally rewarded. If you are married or in a long-term relationship usually you were working so hard for your family or significant other, not just yourself. It truly is an adjustment to a new stage in one’s life, especially for couples. All the free time together can affect even the strongest bonds or relationships. A lot of people look at work as a way to get away from you partner, it’s not always healthy to be constantly with your partner every hour of every day.
You would think with no job to wake up to in the morning and all that time that new retirees would be banging like jack rabbits. The sad fact is that it’s not true; retirees have sex less often in comparison to those with a job still. Some retirees even say being retired ruined their sex lives completely and that being retired made their sex suffer. The average sex per month is about five times per month among retirees as compared to nine times for those still in the workforce.
Why is this trend happening so frequently in retirees? It could be the increase in time with your partner; the more time between each other could to more possible fights, arguments or the popular saying that “familiarity breeds contempt.” Retiree’s self-esteem and self-worth could drop after retirement because they compare themselves to those still working. Low self-esteem could lead to no sexual desire, as well as retirement could make you or your partner lazy.
Retirees. Stop making excuses and just do it. If you are a single retiree you have all the time in the world to call our local chat lines to find someone to make you work. Let our phone chat lines break you out of your boring everyday routine and get you out of the house for some local hook ups. It doesn’t matter your age, we have people of all ages calling into our phone lines everyday.