Have you ever heard of the term compersion? Compersion is when you get turned on when you find your partner attracted to another man or woman. It can also refer to getting turned on when your lover is in the act of getting it on with someone other than you. Compersion is a term used in many polyamorous relationships and it describes the state of feeling and being turned on when your partner is attracted to another person, rather than feeling jealous about it. A really safe way to begin playing around with compersion to see if you and your partner can experience that heightened level of sexual arousal, is to watch your lover call in for a one on one call to one of our free trial chatlines.
We recommend planning a sexy evening with candles and whatever gets you in the mood for romantic fun. Once you are ready to start the evening, pick up and dial into one of our lines for your lover. Once he or she is on the phone, sit back and give them space as they delve into a sexy conversation with one of our operators. Listen to what he or she is saying and watch as they get turned on by someone outside of your relationship. If you start to feel turned on by the fact that your partner is getting sexual aroused by someone other than you, you my friend have reached compersion.
Playing around on our phone lines with your lover is a great way to add a little spice to your sex life in a safe way, in your safe space and under your own terms. Many couples that are thinking about swinging will give our lines a call together so that they can begin to experiment with what it is like to have others partake in their shared sexual experience.